Our Engagement Story: A Valentine’s Day Proposal

It’s official, Louie and I are ENGAGED! πŸ™‚ We are extremely joyful and ready for this next adventure in our relationship. We appreciateΒ all the nice greetings, comments and support from our friends and families. Many people have asked me how he proposed.Β After repeating itΒ about ten times now, I got pretty good at telling it:

How He Asked

We usually see each otherΒ every Sunday afternoon. Last Sunday was no different, except that itΒ wasΒ Valentine’s Day, and so I expected our dinner date toΒ be extraΒ special.

At 3:00PM, he fetched me from Mandarin Sky in Banawe, where my cousin celebrated his birthday. Then, we drove to his house where he said we would stay while waiting for his reservation at the restaurant at 8:00PM.

Since I had a bad cough the previous week and preferred toΒ rest at home, topics and stories to share have piled up. We talked for two hours butΒ it felt like 20 minutes.

Video (Part 1)

Suddenly, he had me watch a video he made. It was a short video showing a day in his lifeβ€”what he does from the time he wakes up in the morning, yada yada yada. Before it played, he excused himselfΒ out of the room because “he had to get something from their main house.”

I watched the video alone and thought it clearly showed his personality and his sense of humor. It was enjoyableΒ and worth critiquing.Β Knowing him, I was positiveΒ he would ask me for a technical review sinceΒ he had been spending some time learning how to create video content that will engage viewers in various subjects. πŸ˜›

The storyline was well established early on. The tone of narration, music and sounds, ambient transition effects, and acting of the characters (Louie as himself and the animated Dodsy, my doll) were great.Β I was completely unaware that it was a video cuing for something else.

The video ended with a black screen andΒ “EATING TIME” as the only caption. I guessed it was time for us to head out to the restaurant for dinner. From behind the door, Louie emerged, covered my eyes, and walked me to their living room that was transformedΒ from simple to va-va-voom romantic!

Dinner Date: Not anΒ Average Valentine’s Day Celebration

The adornments looked visually impressive. With candle lights and rose petals scattered around, the room conjured a feeling of romance. The table setting and comfortable seating were idealΒ as well for a quiet tΓͺte-Γ -tΓͺte. If I were to rate the ambiance like I normally do for my restaurant reviews, it would be 5/5 stars. πŸ˜€

LouieΒ served us food fromΒ Ombu Modern Filipino Restaurant in Tomas Morato.Β Ombu is a specialist for awesome Filipino food with twist. Tastes were not revolutionary but rich and excellent nonetheless.Β We had Tinapa Croquettes (creamed smoked fish coated in breadcrumbs), All Meat Pizza (Hungarian sausage, longganisa hamonado, bacon, salted egg whites, mozzarella, kesong puti), and Smoked Bangus Spaghettini (olive oil-based pasta flavored with garlic and smoked milkfish).

For our drink, Novellino Strawberry Passion was a pleasant surprise. It’s a casual 4.5%-alcohol wine blended with natural strawberry extract that enhances the wine’s fruity character and gives it a refreshing finish. Since the dishes went a little too heavy on the salt for our taste, the sweet wine turned out asΒ a good complement. πŸ˜‰

I was delighted to see theΒ effort he exerted forΒ all these, but it was just the icing on the cake…

Video (Part 2)

After dinner, I gave him his gift. It was a long sleeve polo and a pack of coffee (he recently discovered his love for coffee). To my surprise, he said he has something for me, too. I thought the whole dinner experience was the gift, but that wasn’t all.

Another video began to play.

The Sweetest Marriage Proposal on Valentine’s Day

The video’s concept followedΒ “Maalaala Mo Kaya” (MMK) with Louie as both the letter-sender and Ms. Charo Santos. πŸ˜‰ It was an episode centered onΒ his views and feelings towards me, our relationship, and basically all the amazing highlights fromΒ the years we spentΒ together. His kind words sounded genuine. I felt in awe of theΒ thoughtfulness he put to making the video so unique and special.

This time, the video ended with an instruction, and it was for me to go through the door to the kitchen and follow the lead. I got lost at first but found the right way eventually. Apparently, the rose petals sprinkled on the floor were the lead to the room on the upper floor.

And there he wasβ€”in the middle of the room, with one hand holding a bouquet of roses and another, in his pocket. I thanked him for the flowers and told him how I tried to open so many doorsΒ to find him.Β For a moment, it was quite comicalβ€”until with a smile,Β he pulled out the ring, got down on one knee, and asked me to marry him! (Christina Perri’s A Thousand Years was playing as background music.)

My heart dropped and my face lit up with pure happiness. I did not even look at the beautiful diamond ring. I immediately said yes, certain as the sun rising in the east. β™« Oh yes. I jumped into his armsΒ and hugged him tightly. He hugged me back. πŸ™‚

LouieΒ is extremely romantic, and our engagementΒ story shows that perfectly. It was one of the most preciousΒ nights of my life. πŸ™‚Β For starters, I had absolutely NO IDEA that engagement was anywhere close to happening for us that night.

Thanks to his brothers for helping with the setup and taking our pictures. πŸ™‚

How We Met

Louie and I met in 2007 in our first year, third term in DLSU. We were taking up BS-ICTM (Information and Communication TechnologyΒ Management) and were classmates in some of our classes. I thought he was cuteΒ but that’s all it ever was,Β nothing I imagined the man I would fall in love would be like. It wasn’t a year later when we started to talk.

Mostly we discussed about academics, homework, and only a little about personal life through online chat. In person, we exchanged two-second glances and quickΒ hello’s.

Fate gave usΒ a little push.Β Sparks flew when we realized how much our lives aligned. We knew it was something we could not ignore and so weΒ explored further. We were friends for two years before we became a couple.

We’re now at our seventh year, and I feel so grateful to have him. He’s just the kindest and most loving person.Β He inspires me to take chances and be adventurous. He’s always right there and does everything he can to make sure I feel safe. With him, I feel right at home. β™₯

Now I have a wonderful fiancΓ© and one big wedding to plan! I can’tΒ wait to marry the man of my dreams and create more meaningful scenesΒ in our “MMK episode”Β to share with you guys. πŸ˜› So exciting!

Comments

104 responses to “Our Engagement Story: A Valentine’s Day Proposal”

  1. Romzs Avatar

    Aww Roch! Congrats to you both! <3

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Romzs! πŸ™‚

  2. Mr_jeng Avatar

    Hahahahahaha MMK!!!!!!! Super duper congrats roch!!!! To you and your forever!!! Ikaw na!!! Haba ng hair. Legit!!! See you soon!!M and super duper congrats because…you both deserve it!!!!! Yay!!!!!

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Jeng! πŸ˜€

  3. Marge Avatar

    It’s so nice to finally read how he proposed. I was actually planning to ask you in person but since you wrote it already, this is enough. I always tell people that if they have someone who loves them they are the lucky ones. And you and Louie are indeed lucky. I wish you nothing but the best in your engagement. Congratulations Roch! I am genuinely happy for you!

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Marge! πŸ™‚

  4. Helen Avatar

    Congrats you two! Super kilig and sweet! <3

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Helen! πŸ™‚

  5. Stacy Avatar

    Congrats! Goodluck sa big wedding hehe

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Stacy. πŸ™‚

  6. Anna lim Avatar
    Anna lim

    Wow… Im in awe… Super romantic engagement!
    Wait, i want to ask if ur family will require the traditional ting hun beforee d big day?

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Hi Anna! I don’t think we will be having the traditional ting hun.

  7. phyliciamarie Avatar

    So happy for you!!! Congrats Roch!!

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Phia. πŸ™‚

  8. Tami Avatar

    You have a keeper! I can’t imagine my husband putting forth that much effort into a proposal. He’s great, but he just wouldn’t do that. I loved hearing every minute of the proposal. I can’t believe you didn’t suspect anything!

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Yup, I thought the sweet gestures and messages were only for Valentine’s Day. After research, I found that many couples get engaged on this very day. πŸ™‚ Louie is kind and as my friend said, he does things over the top!

  9. Jeypi Kyu Avatar

    wow! super congratulations.. you guys seem to be meving on to the next step of your life. God bless!

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Jeypi. πŸ™‚

  10. Elizabeth O. Avatar
    Elizabeth O.

    Oh my, that brought me to tears. What a romantic story! I’m so happy for the two of you. You look so good together! Congratulations, here’s to more years of happiness!

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Elizabeth! πŸ™‚

  11. Robin Rue (@massholemommy) Avatar
    Robin Rue (@massholemommy)

    That is so exciting! Congrats. My husband and I don’t celebrate Valentine’s Day, but we got engaged on xmas eve.

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Oh wow, that’s also nice! Thanks, Robin. πŸ™‚

  12. Stacie @ Divine Lifestyle Avatar

    How romantic is that. You’ve definitely got a keeper there. Congratulations!

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Stacie. πŸ™‚

  13. Chubskulit Rose Avatar

    How very sweet and romantic. Congratulations to both of you and good luck to the next stage of your relationship! You guys look great tpgether!

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Rose. πŸ™‚

  14. Claire Algarme Avatar

    This is so sweet! What a wonderful Valentine celebration for you both. I wish you all the best in the next phase of your lives together. πŸ™‚

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Claire! πŸ™‚

  15. Jeanette Avatar

    WOW! Congratulations! It looks like he really thought this out. What a romantic proposal.

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      He said he has been planning for this in months. Poor guy. πŸ™‚

  16. Angela K Avatar

    that is amazing! You are seriously one very lucky woman! Congrats you two!!

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Angela. πŸ™‚

  17. Jacqui Odell Avatar
    Jacqui Odell

    How sweet. I love what he did to the floor. Very cute!

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Yup, I truly appreciate all effort! πŸ™‚

  18. Jason Panuelos Avatar

    Oh my goodness!! Biggest congratulations to you! Sobra akong kinilig dito! Haha! πŸ˜€

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Haha thanks, Jason. πŸ™‚

  19. Miles L. Avatar

    Wow! What a romantic way to propose! This made me reminisce the time when my husband proposed to me.

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Yup, Louie is romantic though he doesn’t show this side of him to most friends. πŸ™‚

  20. victoria Avatar
    victoria

    Omg Congrats to the both of you, It was a Romantic proposal ever.

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Victoria. πŸ˜€ I tried not to cry.

  21. Fred Erick Avatar

    Congratulations! That was pretty romantic and intimate. Your boyfriend really made a huge effort.

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Fred. πŸ™‚ That’s hard to beat.

  22. Mommy Roxi Avatar

    Congratulations!!! He is sooo sweet with all the preparation he made for you!

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Yes, super. Thanks, Mommy Roxi. πŸ™‚

  23. Pooja Kawatra Avatar

    Congratulations.. You both make a great pair and love the decoration.

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Pooja. πŸ™‚

  24. Amanda Love Avatar

    Wow, he surely knew how to do a marriage proposal. Congratulations and I’m sure that you two will be super happy together. Can’t wait to see the wedding day.

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Amanda. πŸ™‚

  25. Franc Ramon Avatar

    Louie is such a romantic and I’m so happy for both of you. I’ve been waiting to read the story since Louie posted that update. Louie is a lucky man to have you. And by the way, your engagement date still had your a game on your food stuff.

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Haha thanks, Franc. πŸ™‚

  26. Maerose JS Avatar

    Wow! This is one romantic proposal! I’m very happy for you, congratulations! May your life together be filled with surprises and appreciation for each other. <3

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Maerose. πŸ™‚

  27. Kelli @ 3 Boys and a Dog Avatar

    How absolutely amazing! First, congratulations! And a great big high 5 on your fiances presentation! so romantic and sweet! Thank you for sharing your amazing and sweet proposal with us!

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      It’s my pleasure. Thanks, Kelli. πŸ™‚

  28. Shubhada Avatar

    Congrats! The whole proposal event was very well-thought. Romantic!

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Shubhada. πŸ™‚

  29. Tiffany Yong Avatar

    Congratulations! I’m so glad he did the asking and also put in so much effort to surprise you! It is also good that you record it down as a momento for that moment!

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Yes, documentation for me is a must since I tend to forget things after some years. Thanks, Tiffany. πŸ™‚

  30. Ann Bacciaglia Avatar

    Congratulations on your engagement. This looks like it was an amazing night. I love the giant heart on the floor.

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Ann. It really was! πŸ™‚

  31. ricci Avatar

    Congrats on your engagement!!! Looks like it was a magical night!!

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Ricci. πŸ™‚

  32. Jenn Avatar

    Congratulations! Sounds like a day you’ll cherish forever. So romantic!

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Jenn! πŸ™‚

  33. Barely Vegan Avatar

    Beautiful beautiful beautiful proposal!! He put A LOT of work into this and it shows! Congrats!!!

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Monique. πŸ™‚

  34. Chrystal | Nevermore Lane Avatar

    Oh goodness! Congrats! Such a wonderful looking meal. And that proposal! HOW SPECIAL!

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Chrystal. πŸ™‚

  35. PJ Zafra Avatar

    Wow! Congratulations. You two sure look amazingly happy. Great pictures and you definitely worked hard to make it such a special day. Thanks for sharing. I wish you two a beautiful journey together.

  36. Crystal Lopez Avatar

    Oh my goodness! How beautiful and such a sweet and heartfelt way to ask. Congratulations!

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Crystal. πŸ™‚

  37. Fred Avatar

    Congratulations on the engagement. He really put in a lot of effort to make this proposal occasion unforgettable. We your readers feel as if we know you guys already, and are very happy for you.

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Fred. πŸ™‚

  38. Bhushavali Avatar

    Roch…. Hearty hearty congrats to you. Its a beautiful story. Louie is so so romantic… True, you would have felt its a very romantic Valentine’s day, and wouldn’t have expected a proposal twist at the end…

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Yup! Thanks, Bhushavali. πŸ™‚

  39. pushkal Avatar
    pushkal

    You definitely have a love story as they have in novels/movirs πŸ˜›
    And all I want to do is convay my best wishes.
    Hearty congratulations! πŸ™‚

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Pushkal. πŸ™‚

  40. Jennifer Pilgrim Avatar

    The video sounds so sweet! The rose petals and food look amazing. Congratulations!

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Jennifer. πŸ™‚

  41. Sunshine Kelly Avatar

    Wow! congrats I wish both of you have a good journey of life together. The way he propose is so sweet.

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Kelly. πŸ™‚

  42. Arisa Avatar
    Arisa

    That’s one beck of a crazy amount of effort he did on proposing! Congratulations babe, looking forward for your wedding posts!

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Arisa! πŸ™‚

  43. TweenselMom Avatar

    That was very romantic! I wish the two of you forever, because there is forever.

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Wow naman, thanks! πŸ™‚

  44. Sin Yee Avatar

    Congratz! A friend of mine got proposed by his boyfriend on Valentine’s day too. Still waiting her to share the story.. Hha

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Haha, it seems too clichΓ© to propose on a Valentine’s Day, but it’s alright. πŸ˜€ Thanks, Sin Yee!

  45. Marielle Altenor Avatar

    Oh my gosh!! I’m so very happy for you guys! He sure know how to win over a girl’s heart! Wish you guys all the best!

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Marielle! πŸ™‚

  46. Pal Raine Avatar

    Roch, congrats and wishing you all the best. I know that your relationship is going to last a lifetime, because the guy is madly inlove with you. xoxo

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      I hope that he’ll remain this way. Thanks, Pal Rine. πŸ™‚

  47. CourtneyLynne Avatar
    CourtneyLynne

    Omg this is just so fabulous!!!! Loving the rose pedals!!!! And the food!!! Omg! Congrats πŸ™‚

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Courtney. πŸ™‚

  48. Shannon Gurnee Avatar

    That is such a sweet proposal. Love that he did it in such a special way! Congratulations!

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Shannon. πŸ™‚

  49. Lori Avatar

    Such a lovely story! Congratulations to you both and to many-many happy years together. The proposal was amazing! So romantic.

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Lori. πŸ™‚

  50. Shy Avatar

    Aww! This is so sweeeeet :3 Congratulations!

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Shy! πŸ™‚

  51. SlickMaster Avatar

    What. a. story.

    At least you proved Valentine’s Day the way it should be. As special as it gets. Congrats to the two of you!

    P.S. That wine’s the sweetest flavor I had tasted.

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Slickmaster. πŸ™‚

  52. Michelle Avatar
    Michelle

    That is the sweetest. Congrats to you both, he did great.

    1. Rochkirstin Santos Avatar

      Thanks, Michelle! πŸ™‚

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